priorities

Why is it that for so much energy we expound upon trying to not feel alone we end up feeling further apart from another or even the things we think we need or want. We seem to search for another being or things to fill a void in our lives to complete us. Some people seem to find their soulmate, being so young I wonder if I should actively search for my soulmate or let fate carry me through life. Fate is a funny thing, to an extent we can make our own but so much is just meant to happen to us because of Karma or something else To me it seems that we should surrender ourselves to God everyday. Humility should be a part of our lives everyday.